Death By Public Speaking

“I would rather die than speak in front of people.” Ever heard this statement made by someone? You had better believe it. The fear of public speaking does in fact feature in the top three of the worlds list of fears, even higher than the fear of death itself.

Whilst effective public speaking comes with practise it is not easy to get started. Here are ten communication skills even for the experienced speaker or presenter.

i. Start and finish on time – it shows respect and reduces stress.
ii. Eye communication – not more than 3 seconds per person
iii. Body Language – it constitutes 55% of your message
iv. Variety in Tone of Voice – it constitutes 38% of your message
v. Listener involvement – asks rhetorical questions
vi. Appropriate use of humour – not jokes, the risks are too high.
vii. Dress and appearance- rather overdress than under dress; you can always take a jacket off
viii. Posture and movement – avoid hands in pockets and standing dead still. Avoid prowling like a lion in a cage.
ix. Language – do not use vulgarity
x. Be yourself – be natural - do not try to copy someone else.

Use these tips in your next address to a group of people and you will feel that your butterflies (a normal and acceptable symptom for the most practised public speakers) are all flying in formation rather than haphazardly.

Allan has just authored his first book called Renovate Your Life. He has 15 years of experience in Business and Personal Performance coaching. You can visit www.thinkandperform.co.za