Prom - How Can It Be So Exciting And So Scary At The Same Time?
As you begin to plan for prom, you may start to feel excited about this special day. You may also become very frustrated, worried and overwhelmed. How can one day be so amazing and yet so scary at the same time? As you consider the way you are feeling, remember that this day is one that is special to you. It can be whatever you want it to be, or nothing at all. When you take away some of the stress of the day, you will feel better and more than likely have a better prom because of it.
One thing that often causes people to become scared of this day is actually all the hope that is put into it. Everything seems like it will have to be perfect, from your hair, to your shoes, to your date. Every detail is supposed to be perfect. However, what if it is not, that worry is one many girls have. Instead of worrying about your prom in this way, though, you may want to take a step back and relax some. Rather than stressing about each of these things, realize that your prom is much more enjoyable when there is less going through your mind. Relax.
Another part of prom that is often scary is what happens afterwards. There are plenty of risks here including alcohol and sexual situations. How will you avoid these problems? A good idea is to plan to have something else to do instead. For example, it may be best to go to the after prom so there is no risk of exposure to the drinking. If something is worrying you, find a way to resolve the problem.
Other aspects of prom can be worrisome. What about that first dance, who will you sit with? What if you do not like your date after you get there? While all of these things are things you are worrying about, so is everyone else. Realize that to make prom the best it can be, you have to just go with the flow. Relax and allow prom to be as special as it is, when it happens. If there is any situation, you are unsure of or worried about, talk to your friends and family about it.
Prom should be a lot of fun and can be one of the best days of your life. If it has been overwhelming you to this point, though, take a step back and hang out for a day. Have fun doing something you love and then come back to planning for prom. You will feel better about it, then.
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